Do Differently

Here in the US, businesses are starting to open back up after weeks of pandemic lockdown. We’re about to enter a new phase in this journey together.

Today marks 60 days that my family and I have lived and worked and been schooled from home, the five of us. It’s been a cozy little cocoon these many weeks. The weather is finally starting to improve in Ohio with warmer temps, no snow, less rain. This particular way we’ve been living life is coming to an end.

We all know how easy it can be to lament the many things we’ve lost over these 60 days: people chief among them, followed by jobs and life savings, milestones like proms and graduations and weddings and spring sports, and then maybe even followed by civility among our fellow Americans.

Let’s not focus on that. Let’s focus on what we’ve gained, what we vow to do differently. I don’t want to go back to the way things were.


I’ll go first. In no particular order and by no stretch all-inclusive, here’s what I have gained and want to keep in my day-to-day life:

  1. Routine family dinner, and all this extra time with the kids
  2. Frequent meditation
  3. Book reading
  4. More blogging
  5. Working from home (aka, the three-minute commute) with a puppy in my lap now and then
  6. Comfy clothes
  7. Reconnecting with far-flung friends using any manner of video technology
  8. Netflix (yes!) for on-demand comedy
  9. Savings that arose from not buying gas, lunch, clothes, etc.
  10. The ability to focus on and truly enjoy the moments that make up the here and now
  11. The realization that some things are truly outside of our control
  12. The gift of my tribe – my tight circle of family, friends, and coworkers who I love
  13. Simplicity of routine and in possessions
  14. The sound of birds singing
  15. Extra time for more hiking
  16. A mostly empty evening and weekend calendar to use as the mood strikes me
  17. Immense gratitude for my health and for all front line care givers, essential workers, and creative types who found ways to inject joy into these crazy days.

How about you? I’d love to hear at least one thing you discovered or reclaimed since the pandemic and you resolve to continue, to do different than you did before the world changed.


Image by Ivan Bertolazzi on Pexels

Author: silonda

I'm not your average Midwestern American woman: an older mom to three kids and married to a musician, hiding out in a small town. I’ve worked as a serious business professional my entire adult life but my soul is really an artist. Wonderlust (i.e., insatiable curiosity) and wanderlust lead me to read voraciously and travel often. The introvert in me likes to quietly observe and share what I discover through writing but buried inside is a pretty funny chick full of spunk and verve who is eager to come out and play. Deep thinking and feeling (all the feels) is my default mode and then I'll crack a joke about it. I’m constantly striving to cultivate whatever makes for beautiful and to love UP.

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