The Joy of Planning

close-up-composition-data-669986I’ll admit that I am a planning geek. Who knew how much joy it would give me to organize my activities by hour, by day, by month or even to break down big goals into little, easily achievable ones?

This is a highly valuable skill at work, but that’s not what I’m talking about. I’m talking about the tools we use to get our personal lives in order. Let me tell you about a few that I really dig. Mine cover the gamut of online and hard copy tools, because I still get a thrill from long-hand planning.

Did I mention I’m a geek? I’ve embraced that aspect of myself, so it’s ok. Loving yourself has gotta start somewhere, right?


Online Planning

Microsoft OneNote

Oh my heavens – I don’t know how I survived before my coworker Travis showed me this little doozy. Now I open it and use it all day long like I do with email. I won’t get into a long description of how it works, but if you have it among the suite of Microsoft applications, use it.

I create a new page for each meeting I attend so I can take notes. I draft simple project plans on new pages. My front page, however, is a to-do list “dashboard”, and I’ve organized it by “Today/Immediate”, “Soon/This Week”, and “Low Urgency/Eventually”.  It’s really easy to add a task and move it around my dashboard and anything you add in is automatically saved.

I have a tab for Work and another, separate tab for Personal, with several pages underneath each. God knows as a mother, stuff just pops into my head at all moments of the day, and I take the time right then and there to write it down or else I’d forget.

For each task, there’s even a little place to put a check-mark in the box which I do to indicate that progress has started (e.g., I have a call out to someone and I’m waiting for their response). Once a task is complete, I remove it from the page altogether. Sometimes, if the item is noteworthy enough, I move it to an entirely different page where I keep track of my major accomplishments throughout the year for performance evaluation and resume-building purposes.

You name it, it’s out there on my OneNote. I keep dibs on Christmas and birthday ideas for the family, home improvement ideas, thank you cards that I should write, and vacation spots I want to visit during the year. I get a certain kick out of putting a check mark next to the places I have visited during the year once the trip has finished, because half of the joy of traveling is anticipating where I’m going and reliving the memories once it’s over.

Let’s just say, my team got a glimpse of my OneNote dashboard and they were frightened, by the number of things that I track. They got a glimpse into how my mind works! But honestly, before I found OneNote, I wasted time recreating endless lists, took notes in tablets, notepads, and Post-It notes that sometimes got lost or disorganized. That simply is no longer a problem. OneNote is far superior.

Google Calendar

In the early days of child-raising, my husband and I struggled to keep our calendars organized and in sync, so we landed on creating a Google calendar. We were able to merge his music studio calendar (online for his students and their parents to see) with our family calendar and we even gave our sitter access to it so everyone would know who needs to be where and when. This way, we can access the calendar while at work, at home, or on the road by iPad or phone. Each family member’s entries are color coded including whole-family activities. Every soccer practice and game, dance rehearsal and competition, doctor appointment, school concert, marching band rehearsal and competition, football game, basketball game, birthday, and trip are captured online for all of us to see. It’s been a challenge to get our kids to consult the calendar but at least we parents and our Godsend-of-a-sitter know it’s there. We’d be lost without it.

iPhone Reminders

Oftentimes I am driving in the car, and the flood of ideas hit me – phone calls to make, prescriptions to pick up, etc. Sometimes as I listen to podcasts on my 30-minute commute to work, I’ll learn the name of an author, book, website, or product I want to check out. Boom! I dictate these entries into my iPhone Reminders and then periodically transfer those into Google Calendar or my OneNote at work.

We’re an Apple family so we’ve created a family-shared Reminder list for needed groceries. This list doesn’t get as much use but still, it’s there if we need it.

Excel

Yes, plain old Excel. I start off every work day with three entries: 1) three contributions, big or small, that I have made to make life better for someone else, 2) three things I’m grateful for, and 3) three intentions for my day. Each one of these is on a separate tab and I like being easily able to scroll through the list as it grows over the year. I also use Excel to write down my big goals for the year. I organize them by category…health, finance, career, spirit, family, recreation, and friends.

Hard Copy Planning

Ink+Volt

This is my second year using this planner. I know there are ton of planners out in the market and maybe one day I’ll gravitate to another but let me tell you what I like about this one.

First of all the size: it is a 6″x8.5″x1″, hard cover book with a cotton texture cover. I bought one in red, my favorite color. It holds up over a year’s use. It’s small enough to pop into my purse and take with me. It’s also big enough that the pages stay open when you want to write in them. (Actually I prefer hard-wire-bound books for that reason, but Ink+Volt doesn’t offer that option.)

There are sections to plan out the year, the month, and the week with thoughtful essay prompts to guide your week. For the planner in me who still love to write out big goals in long-hand and experience the satisfaction of checking them off the list….the really important personal goals for the week…this has been my near-constant companion.

Now I do love me some happy-colored pens, but I don’t have time for stickers…and some women love Erin Condren planners with the colorful boxes and inspirational quotes…but I’m a little more straight-to-the-point. My organizationally-challenged musician husband loves his Ink+Volt planner. His is green, his favorite color and he is lost without it.

Fitlosophy’s http://www.GetFitBook.com

I ❤️ Target, so much so that I have a residential requirement to live within so many miles of that store every time I have moved. Perusing the fitness aisles at some point this past year, I picked up a journal for myself and my sisters as mother’s day gifts.

Man, I love this thing! First of all it has prompts for you to name three things you’re grateful for. There’s a section for you to articulate your health intention for the day and something that you appreciate about your body. There are fitness prompts for free-form essays, a tip of the day, and then a section to rate your movement, nourishment, and mood.

As someone who has been on health auto-pilot for too long, I began using this journal too, to get me attuned to my physical being. I found it incredibly helpful, so much so that I bought another version of this for my daughter who is growing into a health-conscious young lady, courtesy of her holistically healthy dance studio.

Now you might have noticed that I use Excel and Fitlosophy for a gratitude journal. I do both. I haven’t settled on which version I like better, plus I don’t think you can overdo gratitude.

Big Life Journal

Given I have such a love for planning, it would be a crying shame if I didn’t teach my kids how to do the same! For Christmas this year, each of my kids got one of these journals, including the teen version for the oldest, and I gave one as a gift to another child in our extended family.

Still too early to know how it’s going but I want to teach them the power of visualizing a goal and making it a reality.

Ultimate Student Planner

To help our teen son juggle the demands of his school and extracurricular activities, I found this planner on Amazon which reminded me a lot of the very first one I bought in college to help me keep track of various deadlines and obligations. He has always struggled with organization and planning, kinda like my husband has, so it has been a challenge to get him to use it consistently.

However, score one for the win column: I helped my son with cleaning his room just the other day, and it meant purging a lot of kid stuff now that he’s a full-fledged high school teen. I’m proud to say his mama’s organization genes are starting to rub off on him! He tidied up his desk, reorganized all of the drawers, and pointed to his planner on the desk corner. He told me on Sunday night, he logs into the school’s communication system and finds that all of his teachers have the assignments and expectations for the upcoming week posted online. He makes entries in his planner as needed and showed me some examples.

I nearly fell over. There may be hope for him!


Now, I will admit it might be time-consuming to juggle the various tools I use but this process works for me and it really doesn’t take me much time at all because I enjoy it. It’s not to say that some items don’t fall through the cracks as they most certainly do.

These various methods and tools help me stay organized but more importantly, they serve as a kind of mindfulness meditation. Call it prayer in writing, if you want. Call it planning with purpose. It’s become a daily routine and I feel harried when I haven’t referenced any of these tools.

What’s your favorite life planning hack? Care to share?

 

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Controlled Chaos

Monday evening. Sitting here trying to figure out how another weekend blew by. I can’t believe February is almost over and I wonder what I have to show for it. I am just exhausted from the never ending stream of things to do for myself, our family, each individual kid, our extended family, friends, the house…..it’s endless. And I feel guilty because I don’t volunteer for anything in our community…but I have no idea how I could possibly squeeze that in along with the demands of my job. I don’t have the stamina and I don’t want to let people down. It’s just non-stop crazy.

For the longest time I’ve been fascinated with the concept of a patron saint, someone Godly that represents a body of people or maybe even an individual. I often wondered who my patron saint would be. Then it hit me. If I had a personal patron saint, it would have to be Martha, always the busy body. Mary Magdalene sat and visited with Christ because she realized the gift before them all, while Martha huffed and puffed that there was so much to do to and no one offering to help.

Yeah, Martha’s my home girl.

You should see my massive “to do” list. I scare people when I show it to them. I break it up into three buckets – the stuff that I really want to tackle this week, the stuff that needs to happen fairly soon (maybe the following week), and a third list of stuff that needs to happen eventually. I write all of it down so I don’t forget about it, and I have a version for work and for my personal life.

I keep all of it on Microsoft OneNote on my work computer. I discovered this life-changing tool maybe about five years ago and can’t believe I had not found it sooner. All you need to do is type…everything is automatically saved. You can easily drag and move around whatever you type on the page, so whatever I put in one bucket can easily move into another if the timing changes.

As things pop in my head throughout the day (at the most inopportune times, of course), I can write them down on the respective lists, and then organize them by theme (different projects at work, meeting agenda planning, action planning, vacation checklists, blog ideas, home projects, etc.)

If you have access to the Microsoft Suite on your work computer, I urge you check this software out because it has made a world of difference in how I stay organized, versus writing tasks and ideas down on random pieces of paper and then transferring it to a master list that I would write over and over, like you used to do with those Franklin Day Planners once upon a time. I can’t do it justice in explaining the value of OneNote in this blog. Really, I can’t. You just have to see for yourself.

85fifteen-323873-unsplashFor some crazy reason I also started using a personal planner last year, Ink + Volt. I now have a red 2018 Ink + Volt planner. I don’t know why I use both methods to stay organized, but I do. I know there are all kinds of planners out there but I don’t need a cutesy one with stickers. Mine has a substantial cover – book quality – with page markers and prompts to ponder. It’s big enough to be easy to write in and small enough to throw in my purse. It has a section for you to plan your year, each month, and each week.

I enjoy checking off a task that I teed up for the week but lately I keep carrying over the same stuff from week to week. True, I’ve been making minor progress on each of my tasks but I am not getting the satisfaction of being completely finished. That bugs me.

March is almost upon us and in my planner, there is a prompt for what I will focus on in March. I feel so scattered. I don’t know what to do.

On one hand, it’s Lent. Lent gets all kinds of bad rap from people who don’t observe it, and I’m not exactly a role model when it comes to my personal observation of it, but one of the purposes or benefits of Lent is to close yourself off from outside distractions and draw inward. Many people use this time to pray, to fast, to break from the demands of the outside world. This is a good thing, a very necessary and helpful thing. Good thing it comes around once a year. And I suppose I could do that. I probably should do that. If you only knew how scattered and fractured my mind was, you’d know why this is a good idea.

But March is also my husband’s 50th birthday, and a way to celebrate and honor him. This is a man who at this point has lived eight years longer than his own father, a topic comes up quite often for an event that happened 42 years ago. No matter what I do, I don’t do enough to honor my husband. He deserves every good thing and I continually fail him as a wife, supporting him the way I ought to. I’m still really selfish and let my needs come first. Right this very moment I should be ordering a cake but I may very well just go to bed, at 7:30 pm.

I’m also having mixed success with the detox I started last month (see Detox Day 5), and feeling kinda bad about that. And I still haven’t cured the wanderlust that hit me pretty hard 10 days ago. Which leads me right back to Help Wanted. Sometimes you just want to call up your mom, wave the white flag, and ask for and get the help you need. But I don’t have that option. I’ve never had that option. I’m not looking for pity – it’s just the way it is.

So today I’m tired. And feeling a little uninspired. And wondering what March has in store for us. Will it feed our souls or punch us in the gut? Will it be the punctuation needed at the end of winter’s monologue? And why do I feel the need to control chaos anyway?

Nitey-night…

 

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